In case you missed it, the first five reasons you’re doing it for you are here. 6. You’re doing it for you because you need to be healthy and whole. You know what feels broken in you. You do. Maybe it’s a sense of disconnection? Or a feeling like you don’t belong? Or believing you’re …
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1. You’re doing it for you because you’ve got to find your own path. You won’t ever find that path, sweetheart, by looking around and trying to follow the path others are on or by asking others if the path you’re on is the right one or by hoping for others to give you the …
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You want a bigger life (because you only get one wild life)? Here’s my advice: make a Life List, which is a list full of things you want to do/have/be while you’re still around. Here’s why: it’ll give you focus,, once you put your wishes onto paper, many (if not all) those wishes will come …
“We don’t see the world as it is, we see it as we are.” —Anaïs Nin Write your creed because you will live out what you believe I’ve said it before and I’m saying it again because I promise you that it’s true: you will live out what you believe (both consciously and …
Ever wonder: Just how did you end up where you don’t want to be? How come you keep doing things you tell yourself you don’t want to do? Or always seem to get this close to getting something you desperately want only to make a bad choice that makes everything fall apart? Or work really …
Here is the house. It was once pretty and white. Now the bushes are dead. The roof leaks. The front door hangs crooked. See the bedroom. The wallpaper has gray flowers. It peels away from the wall in strips. The window is broken. There is a dirty mattress on the floor. See Jane. She wears …
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My oldest is nearly fifteen. My youngest isn’t far behind. If I could pass along any words of wisdom that I’d want them to take to heart, it would be these 15 things I want my boys to know: 1. You are loved. Don’t ever go through the world thinking there’s a possibility that you …
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She could never go back Once upon a time, there was a girl who fell in love. She thought he was the one, even though sometimes a little voice inside her told her that there was something not quite right about him. She said yes when he asked her to marry him, not knowing …
“You are enough. You don’t have to prove yourself to anybody.” ~Maya Angelou The lies we believe that affect our own approval Approval really is an inside job. Maybe you’re one of the lucky ones & never had anyone say or do anything negative to you ever. If that’s true, I’m soooo happy for …
Here’s something I learned the hard way. I’m passing it along so (hopefully) you can learn it the easy way. The wrong question is why: Why did that have to happen? Why me? Why now? Why [fill in the blank]? Fixating on why keeps you stuck, waiting for an answer. And even if you …
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